I had never lived in the country, but had always wanted to. One day the then-boyfriend (we will call him Bob) and I saw this acreage for sale. We had been together quite a while and were pretty well committed to each other. From the first time I stepped foot in that house and walked around the place, I knew it was home. And Bob agreed. We bought the place together three days later. We had both always dreamed of country living, but it seems I was the only one who enjoyed it. Long story short, Bob and I lived there together for a year. For various reasons which I will not get into, it didn't work out and he decided to move back to town. I was panicked. How would I do this all without Bob? After all, I am just a city girl transplanted into the country. How will I do all the mowing? I considered selling the place, but knew I'd likely spend the rest of my life looking for a place I liked as much as this one.
Well, as it turns out, Bob wasn't as much help as I thought he was. I was delighted to find that I could indeed do it without him. It was actually easier....Bob wasn't the handiest of men and broke more than he fixed. In the 6 years since, I have learned a LOT. I can dig a fence post hole, assist with kitten birthing, trap a raccoon, put a belt on the lawn mower, build a proper bonfire. The list goes on and on. It should be noted that I couldn't do it without the help of my dad and brother. They are awesome and always glad (maybe dad more so than my bro) to help me out when I am in over my head. I don't think I could go back to city living now. I like the wide open spaces, beautiful vistas, and bright stars at night far too much to go back.
So that is how I ended up with a 7.5 acre acreage and a five bedroom house that I live in by myself. It wasn't ever my plan to live there alone, but I couldn't love it more. I always joke that I have enough bedrooms that each horse could have their own if we ever had really bad weather...
Love your passion and determination! It sounds like you're right where you ought to be. Congrats!
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